Angel-A The movie that shows us that self-esteem is the strongest love that exists

For centuries, we have always been instilled with the idea that we can only be happy through a couple that loves us and gives us eternal love.

When we reach our twenties, many people in our family circle and friendship tell us incessantly: "Let's see when you get a boyfriend / girlfriend "," Marry since the rice is going to happen to you ", giving us to understand that corresponded love is the only way to achieve full happiness.

However, sometimes we do not realize that our well-being depends solely on ourselves. Only through our actions and goals that we are putting each time we are maturing, it is possible to achieve absolute happiness without depending on anyone.

And this is one of the great strengths that exist when it comes to being a completely independent person in terms of emotions.

We will never have too many expectations in others. If you want to follow us on our way through our precious life, then go ahead. Here there is room for everyone. Although if for any reason you want to leave my side, then there is the door open. No bad rolls, no anger or reproaches of any kind.

Sometimes we idealize love

As we have explained in other articles of NatureVia, there are emotionally dependent people. They wander like souls in distress seeking the approval and acceptance of others. They lack their own initiative and therefore remain "blocked" in the face of any adversity that life presents them with.

They do not know what to do in this type of situation. Hence, they see it very necessary to take a partner to serve as a shoulder to lean on and fill their emotional lacks

But dear friends, this is not love. This is simply an emotional dependence when it comes to having a partner. The bad comes when to idealize the other party, we only see their virtues (which will have them) as a person without also taking into account their shortcomings. We could say that love is based on that. In loving unconditionally the other person without paying attention to their defects. Simply to accept our beloved couple as it is without any cover.

Self-esteem is a romance that lasts a lifetime

Once we have told you this, does this mean that it is not necessary to have a partner in life? Well, it's not that either. Through the person we want, we will "fill in" certain sexual and emotional vacuums that are impossible to achieve by ourselves.

However, we should not deposit all our happiness on the other person. But simply in a way more to complement it and reach it more fully.

We have always been told that we must find "our better half". However, throughout all this time we have not realized that we have had it in front of us since the very moment in which we were born. And that has accompanied us until we become what we are today.

This is the main argument on which he turns " Angel-A"A French film that puts us in the shoes of André, a Parisian boy who makes the difficult decision to take his own life after a life full of failures and personal problems.

However, everything changes until at that moment he meets another girl who is in the same situation. Thanks to her, she will begin to know the gift that life implies. And that only through the self esteem and personal confidence we can enjoy it at its best.

There we leave you with one of the most striking scenes and illustrators of this film and they teach us again that "loving oneself is the beginning of a romance that lasts a lifetime ", as well as the writer Oscar Wilde explained. This article is published for informational purposes only. It can not and should not replace the consultation with a Psychologist. We advise you to consult your trusted Psychologist.

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