How to make your wishes for the New Year come true

When a new year begins, we all want to have luck, love, health and money to get off to a good start the 365 days of the calendar. It is common to ask for these wishes during New Year's Eve, after finishing the chimes, peeping red underwear and crossing your fingers while we toast, but then many forget about such desires.

But how can we make the wishes for the New Year come true? We will have to do our part to make them possible.

From the Harvard Business Review, they recommend that among the most frequent mistakes in establishing New Year's resolutions is that they are not measurable, realistic, attainable, specific, or with predetermined deadlines.

Useful tips that will help you fulfill your New Year's wishes (New Year's Eve)

A wish list

First of all, it is convenient to review what we want for the coming year. The wishes can be general to the common of mortals: love, stability, work, health ... but also other particulars: travel, lose weight, get more clients, etc.

If we have clear desires, it will be easier to access them throughout the year because we can cross out as they are fulfilled, and think about how to make them comply.

Feasible desires

Many people see their hopes of good wishes eroded because they want things they can not get. To be richer, to touch the lottery, to go around the world ... are desires that many crave, but that most likely will not be fulfilled.

So if we want something more affordable, such as getting a job that we like, complaining less, treating our employees better or loving more those around us, we may be able to make an effort to do it and be fulfilled.

Thank what we have, the basis for the wishes to be fulfilled

Giving thanks for all that we have is one of the ways that wishes are achievable. It is advised, that in this case, also note everything we can thank last year to lay the foundations of what will be the new year. They say that being thankful is the most effective way to multiply your desires.

That is, if we appreciate the happiness we have at certain times, life will give you more reasons to be happy. So we will leave behind regrets and complaints in order to be better and, at the same time, see our wishes fulfilled. It's easy and we have it at our fingertips, we just have to stop and think about it.

Perseverance and patience

As we have said before, we started the year with many wishes and energy and as the weeks go by and the days we go off. It is thus complicated to see how the wishes are fulfilled. All desire implies effort, without it it is difficult to achieve because nobody gives anything. Everything is born and part of you, the tenacity and perseverance that is used to get what we want throughout the year. Do not want to get it all the first days.

The basis is to organize better to see our expectations fulfilled in this year that begins. Making money from day to day with our purposes, setting goals and actions to make them come true will help us and make us feel useful. Here the preseverance will be one of the bases for a job well done to be a constant in our life.

To this we add patience. Wanting everything from the beginning will only make us frustrated and discouraged to continue on the path of the path we have set for ourselves. The calm, the relax, the well-being, the relaxation and meditation will help us to obtain the fruits that we crave.

Getting what we want makes us better people, because it helps us to improve the confidence we have in ourselves and, in passing, it reinforces self-esteem. If we propose realistic, well planned and constant goals, we will surely achieve the planned or proposed wishes in this year that begins.

Celebrate the successes

It is something that is not styled. And no matter how small the progress, if it makes you feel better and happier, we should celebrate it. It is better not to wait until your purpose is fulfilled completely, because if we give ourselves a small prize, it will serve as a stimulus to continue more motivated. ThemesChristmas

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