You do not depend on anyone to be happy

Since we were born we have always been taught that the great moments of our life have to be shared with friends, family and later with our partner. However, sometimes we do not realize that with our mere presence we have more than enough to do practically anything we set out to do. This can range from enjoying a movie in the cinema, to going a bit to the adventure on a trip thousands of miles away from our home.

In fact, this practice is increasingly spreading and it is already very common to see all kinds of backpackers who go completely on their own knowing the world without anyone bothering them. Are you still a little reluctant to live your life more independently? Well, do not worry because through this article you will have all the advantages that this implies.

And why not alone?

As well said Aristotle, one of the most important philosophers of Ancient Greece: "The" human is a social being by nature ". Thus, It is completely normal that from time to time we want to socialize with our peers to tell them our problems and concerns in order to feel better. Or it's just good to have a good time and so disconnect a bit from the work world that brings us so much during the week.

Although we should not abuse this either. It is not good to become a person completely dependent on others as there will be many occasions that we will have no choice but to fend for ourselves. And this is one of the advantages of knowing how to be alone.

Every time a setback and problem appears, you will know how to face it due to past experiences and you will be able to put an easy solution to it without absolutely anyone's help. Do you realize the 'chute' of self-esteem and self-confidence that this can mean? In short, "solitude" (in the good sense of the word) can be a way to be a little happier.

Believe in yourself and you will be unstoppable

Another aspect to take into account when enjoying the company of oneself, is that it is also a great way to get to know each other and explore a little more about our personality. When we are with other people, we inevitably change a little way of being to "adapt" a little more to the group. However, being alone will not be necessary to do this.

And how is it possible to do this exercise of introspection? Surely many will ask. Well, very simple, dedicate an afternoon to you, do not stay with anyone and go running to a point that is a little away from your most common places.

Once you arrive at that place, try to be silent with your own thoughts and begin to inquire into yourself. You can ask yourself questions like: "Do I agree with everything I do in my life? "" With the people around me? "" And with my work? "" And my partner? " You can not imagine how many answers you can find in this way. Remember that there is no person who knows better than yourself and you will know better than anyone what is best for you.

Travel, experience, feel!

Now that you know how important it is to enjoy the company of yourself from time to time, now it only remains for you to "break" your limits a bit as we have told you about old articles. You can start with simple things such as going to the movies alone or go shopping without anyone recommending what to buy. Surely in the long run you will get "gustillo" to this practice.

And from here we say that you do not need absolutely NO ONE to be happy. Once you get it, you can do more stimulating things like traveling abroad, practicing extreme sports or going to the picnic mountain. There is an open world of possibilities completely at your whim and that surely help you explore limits that you previously considered impossible. So do not think twice and start to travel, experiment and feel. Surely both your mind and your body will thank you. This article is published for informational purposes only. It can not and should not replace the consultation with a Psychologist. We advise you to consult your trusted Psychologist.