You do not need the approval of others to be happy
As Plato said: "The human is a social being by nature". It is impossible to conceive today's society without mutual support among the different people of this planet. However, we have reached a point where we often need too much approval from others to achieve happiness.
What's useful in this? Is it really necessary that all our friends and family tell us how we should carry out our actions in order to achieve the best results in our lives? As always, everything depends on the situation in which we find ourselves.
We must make mistakes to improve as people
Throughout our childhood, we always live under the protection of our parents. These are the people who will love us the most since we are born. That is why it is very important to follow his wise advice. And it is that ultimately they are people with much more shooting and who have learned all kinds of lessons throughout their long years. They have lived all kinds of adverse situations with which they have learned to move forward. And for that reason it is very important to follow their indications, which only come from the affection and affection that they process us.
However, once we have grown and are reaching a certain age, it is important to learn from our own mistakes. We can not always live in a protective bubble where nothing and nobody can harm us. There will be a time when we will have to learn to walk alone. To make our own decisions. And above all to make mistakes. We have to turn mistakes into opportunities. In new tests to improve with the future and become better people.
Once we have more clear in our life what we want to be. It is very important to impose certain short-term goals. These will give us much more confidence and self-esteem to continue surpassing us and therefore be much more ambitious.
There are people who just want to see us fail
However, I'm sure that along this arduous path there will be people who try to make these dreams not come true. But do not listen to them. Do not pay any attention to them because they really do not deserve it.
These kinds of people just want to see others fail. They are selfish beings who have seen how they have failed both personally and professionally. And therefore they can not stand that the people around them succeed. In short, they are toxic people who want to see how others fall to feel better about themselves. In this way they show that their life is empty and that they have no interest.
This is where we must stay strong. If you really have a dream you must go for it from minute one. If you really want to reach that goal that will make you happy, it is very important that you put all your effort into achieving it. Nothing and no one should tell you that you should not do it. Remember that you are the only ones who have the right to put your own limits.
With this we do not say that it is not worth taking advantage of the advice of third parties if we consider it necessary. The experience is one more grade and therefore can help us to always be on the right path. Especially those mature people who know more about life than we do.
However, at the moment of truth, when it comes to action, you will be completely alone before destiny. And that is where you will have to make a decision. It does not matter which one you choose. Because whether you fail or not, life will give you an opportunity sooner than you imagine. This article is published for informational purposes only. It can not and should not replace the consultation with a Psychologist. We advise you to consult your trusted Psychologist.
