3 lessons we learn before reaching the thirties
There is a moment in our life in which we begin to mature gradually. It is precisely that moment in which we begin to reach thirty years after puberty full sad, happy moments, professional failures, unrequited love and some other excess.
From there, there are many people who prefer to settle their heads and enjoy the small pleasures that life gives them.
Sometimes in this process they learn a series of lessons that can arise even in the most adverse situations. In this sense, from NatureVia we are going to tell you which are the ones with which many of you will feel identified:
We will appreciate real friends
Since we can practically talk, it is very easy to get to know people and make friends in school, high school and university if we had the opportunity to attend higher education. It may be that in this process we have met hundreds of people who, due to coincidences of life or tastes related to ours, have remained on our side for a certain period of time.
However, over the years it is very possible that many of these people who have crossed paths with us take very different paths and directions. Sometimes by simple whim of fate, change of city or insurmountable differences between both parties.
In one way or another, I'm sure that over the years you will have managed to retain other people who do want to stay by your side. It may not be many, but as the Spanish proverb says: "Good friends count on the fingers of one hand".
We will know how to love the right person
It is also very normal that since we reach a certain age, we begin to explore the areas of sexuality. It is in this era where both male and female genitalia begin to develop and therefore increase sexual desire towards our fellow human beings. In this whole process, we will surely fall in love a couple of times and we will also suffer many breakdowns and disappointments that will break our hearts.
However, it is also here where we will realize that he never dies for love. And therefore, it will only be necessary to be as patient as possible until the most suitable person arrives in our lives. And from that moment, we can appreciate it, respect it and love it in a much more intense but at the same time calm way.
You just have to give yourself the necessary time until this happens. But once we get it, surely it will be possible to enjoy all those moments during the most prosperous and happy years of our lives.
We will fail to savor success
In previous articles of NatureVia we have explained to you that many times you have to fail to savor the honeys of success. Thanks to him we will be able to get up again and not fall on the same stone again. Through a multitude of failures that come our way throughout our lives we can deepen our being to better know our virtues and defects as people.
This will be seen especially in the workplace and professional. Maybe at the beginning we do not have jobs that are very well renumbered or that do not have much relation with our training. But thanks to them, we will learn values as important as humility, maturity, responsibility and leadership. These are essential ingredients when it comes to becoming a successful person despite adversity. This article is published for informational purposes only. It can not and should not replace the consultation with a Psychologist. We advise you to consult your trusted Psychologist.
